by Jill of Cornwallis
I believe it was Del Close who said that the characters you play are loosely draped over you like a trench coat. It’s true, when you’re on stage you get to play the best (and sometimes worst) versions of yourself. Yesterday I received a Missed Connection from someone who was at one of two shows Cornwallis did at the Theater on Saturday (if you’re not familiar with Missed Connections, they’re a sort of anonymous personal ads people post on Craig’s List or in the Reader if they want to try and get in touch with a stranger they had an encounter with. You can see mine here.)
This Missed Connection made me think about the characters I had played in each of the shows, and wonder which one this person may have felt some sort of bond with. Was it the Doctor dealing with an extreme OCD patient? The anorexic woman that was bench-pressed to death by her friend? The co-ed who played Twister? How much of my real self and my true personality came through these performances? Would this person be disappointed once they met me? I admit there have been times in the past where I have been disheartened after identifying with a character in a play or improv show, and then discovering that the actor who portrayed him/her was completely different in real life.
Improv itself is about making connections. We make connections with our teammates and within the piece we create. We make connections with the audience when we ask for a suggestion and as we perform for them. In a way, this “Missed Connection” isn’t “Missed” at all. It’s a “Hyper Connection” because this person felt such a correlation to us. I was happy to think that the Craig’s List post means we were doing our job, and did it well. And that isn’t disappointing at all.
PS To the person who posted the Missed Connection — Thank you very much, I’m very flattered. Also, thank you for coming to the show.

photo by Lina Bunte (also of Cornwallis)